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Nicole Malachowski

First Woman Thunderbird Pilot
Combat Veteran
Fighter Squadron Commander
White House Fellow & Adviser
and Indomitable Spirit

Speaks About

  • Harnessing Change
  • Resilience & Adaptability
  • Leadership During Crisis
  • Trust & Teamwork
  • Motivation & Inspiration
  • Creating a High-Performance Culture
  • Diversity
  • Overcoming Obstacles
  • Authentic Leadership
  • Accountability
  • Execution & Risk
  • Making Fast Decisions
  • Mental Health
  • Humanity & Vulnerability
  • Career Insights for Women
  • Chronic/Invisible Illness

Nicole in Brief

Col. Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.) defies stereotypes. Yes, she was a jet fighter pilot, but if you think you know her based on that, you’d be wrong. A leader, a combat veteran, the first woman pilot on the Thunderbirds Air Demonstration Squadron, a White House Fellow, and an inductee into both the National Women’s Hall of Fame and the Women in Aviation International Pioneer Hall of Fame – she even has a Star Trek Federation starship named after her, the USS Malachowski (NCC-1619). Nicole’s distinguished 21-year Air Force career exceeded her wildest dreams. But the dream came to an end when a devastating tick-borne illness left her struggling greatly to speak or walk for almost nine months. An indomitable spirit, Nicole fought back against overwhelming odds and prevailed. Drawing on stories from her career and personal life, Nicole inspires audiences to rethink the challenges they face every day. She urges them to go beyond resilience and become resurgent. Nicole’s empowers people with three key beliefs: failure and risk is the price of entry for achieving something great; sometimes you need to yield to overcome; and her personal mantra – “Nobody wants to lead a scripted life.”

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Nicole brings her experience to the stage and holds audiences spellbound with an easygoing authenticity of someone who’s achieved greatness. She’s been a member and leader of exceptional teams. She has faced overwhelming challenges and adversity and has come out on top.  

While other high school students were practicing for their driver’s license, Nicole was accumulating flight time. She was sixteen years old when she took her first solo flight and from that point on there was no stopping her. While in high school, she joined the Civil Air Patrol and participated in Air Force Junior ROTC. Nicole’s professional story began when she earned her commission from the United States Air Force Academy in 1996. Following graduation, she attended Undergraduate Pilot Training (UPT) at Columbus AFB, MS and began her career as a pilot. Competitively selected to fly combat aircraft, she was among the first group of women to fly modern fighter aircraft.  As a career pilot, she served in combat as an F-15E Flight Commander, Evaluator, Instructor Pilot and Flight Lead. Over her 21-year career, Nicole achieved the rating of Command Pilot with over 2,300 flight hours in six different Air Force aircraft. She was also selected to fly as Thunderbird #3 with the USAF Air Demonstration Squadron – the first woman to fly on any Department of Defense military jet demonstration squadron. Colonel Malachowski has served as a mission ready fighter pilot in three operational F-15E fighter squadrons and has flown over 188 combat hours, including her proudest moment as a fighter pilot: leading the first fighter formation to provide security for Iraq’s historic democratic elections in 2005. 

On the ground, Nicole was a White House Fellow, class of 2008-2009, where she served on the Presidential Transition Support Team (PTST) while assigned to the U.S. General Services Administration. The White House Fellows Foundation and Association awarded Nicole the 2019 IMPACT Award for demonstrating both remarkable achievement and transformational contributions in her field, as well as a sustained commitment to the White House Fellows program. Nicole also served two high-level staff assignments at the Pentagon – one in the Office of the Secretary of Defense (OSD P&R) as well as the Secretary of the Air Force Office of International Affairs (SAF/IA). She also served as the Executive Director of the White House’s national ‘Joining Forces’ initiative where she directly advised former First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden on all topics relating to service members, veterans, and military families to include employment, education, mental health, veterans’ homelessness and more. 

Nicole’s operational F-15E assignments include two tours of duty at RAF Lakenheath, United Kingdom as well as one operational assignment to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC. She has also served alongside the United States Army 2nd Infantry Division, Camp Red Cloud, Republic of Korea, as an Air Liaison Officer. During her second assignment to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC, she had the honor of commanding the 333rd Fighter Squadron, leading an elite cadre of F-15E Instructors in the training of the next generation of combat aviators. Further, she was responsible for resources totaling over $1.1B and the execution of a $119M annual flying hour program.  

Nicole earned a Master of Arts, with honors, in National Security Policy from American Military University and a second Master of Arts, with highest distinction, in National Security and Strategic Studies from the U.S. Naval War College. While there, she earned the Admiral Stephen B. Luce Award as the class honor graduate, the first Air Force officer in the history of the Naval War College to do so. Nicole has received several prestigious honors in recognition of her significant contributions to various endeavors, including the 2023 Award of Inspiration from The Ninety-Nines, Inc.®, an international organization of women pilots who are dedicated to encouraging and inspiring people to chase their dreams, whether in aviation directly or in other arenas. 

As Nicole continues to recover from her neurological tick-borne illness, she embraces any opportunity to educate others about her medical journey and gains energy from educating others about this growing epidemic. She is on the Board of Directors at the LivLyme Foundation and is a Patient Advisory Board Member of The Dean Center for Tick Borne Illness. In November 2020, Nicole was announced as one of 2020’s “Mighty 25” by We Are The Mighty for her passionate advocacy on behalf of veterans’ health. The Mighty 25 is a recognition bestowed each year to change makers in the veteran, active duty, and military family space. 

Colonel Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.) was born in Santa Maria, CA and graduated high school in Las Vegas, NV. She and her husband Paul have twin children; son Garrick and daughter Norah. Paul is a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and former F-15E Evaluator Weapons Systems Officer.  

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Failure is the price of entry for achieving something great.

Nicole Malachowski

Speech Descriptions

Harnessing Headwinds – Successfully Navigating Change and Adversity

Leaders across every industry and experience level share one thing in common: To be successful they need to effectively navigate failure, organizational change, and the unknown. Like headwinds to a pilot, these perceived barriers can force you to change direction, cost you momentum, and even take away options. These headwinds can feel confusing, disorienting, and downright uncomfortable. In this talk, Nicole Malachowski uses the aviation-based idea of headwinds as a metaphor to show how with the right mindset, individuals and teams can learn to harness the energy of these headwinds in their advantage. Nicole inspires individuals and organizations and bolsters their ability to:

• Overcome personal and professional failures
• Effectively navigate organizational and cultural change
• Endure the discomfort of the unknown
• Increase resilience, reinvention, regroup, and adaptability
• Have courage to rise above self-doubt and cultural paradigms
• Support and mentor others on the team

Pushing the Envelope – Being the Best When it Counts

To be successful, leaders from every industry and experience level need to effectively navigate moments of self-doubt, master the role of a trustworthy team player, and embrace moments of personal and professional vulnerability. Using the idea of an aircraft performance envelope as a metaphor, this elite fighter pilot and military leader will share inspiring personal stories and practical tools to ignite individuals and teams to reach beyond commonly-assumed limitations to achieve their maximum capabilities and impact. Nicole Malachowski’s presentation will bolster the ability of individuals and teams to:

• Overcome self-doubt that often inhibits personal and professional growth
• Model the selfless trust needed to be an effective teammate
• Practice vulnerability and transparency to build trust and galvanize teamwork
• Build accountability, dependability and reliability that drive performance
• Break down silos to unleash creativity and adaptability

Breaking Barriers – Conquering Self-Doubt and Cultural Paradigms

Everyone faces barriers, both personal and professional, that may appear to place limits on what’s possible. When people pursue only what is expected, accept cultural norms that hold them back, and view barriers that appear unsurmountable, their personal and professional lives become limited—scripted. A powerful trailblazer herself, Nicole Malachowski reminds audiences to not let others draw their boundaries, and to break tradition with grace and purpose. She inspires people to see obstacles and challenges as opportunities to grow—a chance to reach new levels of personal and professional excellence.
Nicole delivers actionable insights for pursuing dreams, making choices, and living an unscripted life.

• Define your own possibilities and overcome self-doubt
• Reevaluate traditions, paradigms, and overcome limitations
• Welcome challenges to the status quo
• Why having the courage to ask for help is key to, reaching your potential
• Acknowledge the work-life balance myth

Conquering Fog and Friction – Leading Through Times of Crisis

“No war plan survives first contact with the enemy” is a truism. In the military, leaders must acknowledge and address the fog (things we can’t see, know, or predict) and friction (the forces which impede progress) of war. In such times, effective leadership is more crucial than ever. Using the challenges and uncertainties of combat as a metaphor for organizational challenges, Nicole Malachowski stresses perspective, priorities and positive leadership as she provides tools for leaders to use in times of crisis—or anytime—to keep their organizations successfully moving forward. Nicole offers leaders a framework to lead through fog and friction in times of crisis.

• How to proceed regardless of the unknowns your organization facing
• How to maneuver around or through impediments to your organization’s progress
• Understand the leadership challenges that are unique to times of crisis
• Keep focused on your purpose; perspective is critical to manage risk and adapt
• Positivity and calmness are essential. Instill confidence; don’t add to the chaos

The Mach 2 Mindset – Decision-Making in a High-Speed Environment

One popular pilot saying is “speed is life,” because without enough speed, an airplane is nothing more than an expensive rock. In the business world, especially when technology is involved, speed can be just as crucial. The organization that moves the fastest often realizes the most success. Having flown a high-tech fighter aircraft that can reach speeds of up to twice the speed of sound, Nicole Malachowski offers principles that keep any organization functioning smoothly, efficiently, and at high speed, even when chaos and the unexpected occur. Nicole’s insights help leaders create a culture where decisions get made quickly.

• Assess the dynamics that slow your organization down
• How turmoil in your operating environment slows you down
• How does a need for speed impact decision-making
• Trust, clear roles, and communication are vital to navigate the unknown at speed
• Practice, planning, and preparation underpin organizations that move quickly

Nicole's Videos

https://player.vimeo.com/video/1065891764
How to Navigate Turbulence
https://player.vimeo.com/video/677779512
Pushing the Envelope Intro
https://player.vimeo.com/video/1072658507
When Things Fall Apart – Yield to Overcome
https://player.vimeo.com/video/385076529
Turning Mistakes Into Elite Performance
https://player.vimeo.com/video/473021171
Supporting One Another: Ask for Help/Offer Help
https://player.vimeo.com/video/678720284
Courage - Nobody Wants to Lead a Scripted Life
https://player.vimeo.com/video/1077735800
The Wingman Contract
https://player.vimeo.com/video/362047200
Acceptance Speech – National Women's Hall of Fame

Quotes

You build trust by being trustworthy.

Nicole Malachowski

The runway behind you is always unusable. All you have is the runway in front of you.

Nicole Malachowski

Nobody wants to lead a scripted life.

Nicole Malachowski

Believe in those who believe in you.

Nicole Malachowski

Nothing of significance is every accomplished alone.

Nicole Malachowski

Loosen Your Grip.

Nicole Malachowski

  • You touched so many people with not only your story, but the very essence of who you are as human being. You left us all with the gifts of inspiration and motivation…exactly what we needed to end a conference that was focused on driving performance and connections.

    Event Planner, PM Hotel Group
  • You are a spectacular speaker and I have never been to a meeting with our entire team mesmerized by anyone like they were with you. Your story is unbelievable and you are able to deliver it in such a natural and powerful way that had me in awe for days after. I haven’t been so motivated or inspired by anyone in a long time.

    Director | Marketing Activation, Best Western® Hotels & Resorts
  • An indomitable spirit whose life journey adds such warmth and depth to her powerful message.

    VP, Advanced Technology Demonstration Center, Northrop Grumman
  • Rarely have I found an entire room of business colleagues all so incredibly inspired and engaged by one speaker! Nicole’s compassion, determination and kind spirit shine through…the outpouring of support, after two standing ovations and many tears, made it clear her message resonated with everyone in attendance.

    CEO of Cetera Financial Group
  • Nicole was exceptionally well received. She—truly—did a magnificent job. Connected with the audience, inspiring, thought-provoking, funny, real, open. Our colleagues couldn’t stop talking about it. Was the highlight of our event.

    UnitedHealth Group
  • We cannot thank YOU enough for bringing your inspiring, moving, profound, vulnerable, INCREDIBLE story to our team. If your ears have been ringing it is 120 people saying you were the absolute highlight of the whole offsite. And many told me you were the BEST speaker they have ever heard.

    Training Manager, Genentech
  • Everyone…I mean everyone…left raving about your message. You are an exceptional speaker and have an incredible message to share with anyone that’s looking at ways to be motivated to improve themselves. So yes, count me in as a card holding member of your fan club.

    Chairman, Board of Directors, National Association of Specialty Pharmacy (NASP)
  • …the best speaker we have ever had in the 28 years this event has been held. I strongly recommend her to future clients.

    Group Vice President and General Manager, Lexus Division
  • Nicole was a tremendous inspiration to our members. Nicole engaged with our audience and they left with a real sense of empowerment. I would highly recommend Nicole to any audience. Many of our contractors said she was the best speaker we have ever had.

    CEO, National Electrical Contractors Association (NECA)
  • Nicole was amazing and stole the hearts of every woman in the room. She got two standing ovations and there were lots of tears shed. You can’t imagine how impactful it was in a room of 100 professional economic development women.

    Women in Education
  • Book her now! I have worked with many speakers throughout my career and by far Nicole is the best. She did her homework and tied in our mission to her remarks and hit the nail on the head on how our audience of over 800 people can work together as a team. She was funny, passionate and drove home her points.

    Savannah Economic Development Authority
  • She was amazing from arrival, unbelievable on the main stage plus incredibly gracious in the VIP Photo. In my 24 years of being a meeting planner, Nicole is in my Top 5 as a speaker with her empowering content and we’re lucky to have someone like her sharing her message. Super human in my book! WOW!

    Principal & Senior Event Producer, planit inc.
  • Impactful. Authentic. Inspiring. She is real and delivers a message every leader will walk away with the opportunity to improve themselves and their team.

    President & CEO, National Tank Truck Carriers
  • Simply the best speaker we have ever had in 32 years! Period!

    CEO, Chairman of the Board, Founder of Troon