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Nicole Malachowski

First Woman Thunderbird Pilot, Combat Veteran, Fighter Squadron Commander, 21-Year U.S. Air Force Career, White House Fellow, Former White House Adviser, and Indomitable Spirit

Speaks About

  • Leadership
  • Harnessing Change
  • Resilience & Adaptability
  • Trust & Teamwork
  • Motivation & Inspiration
  • Creating a High-Performance Culture
  • Diversity
  • Overcoming Obstacles
  • Accountability
  • Execution & Risk
  • Decisive Leadership
  • Mental Health
  • Humanity & Vulnerability
  • Career Insights for Women
  • Chronic/Invisible Illness

Nicole in Brief

  • ELEVATING TEAM PERFORMANCE: Nothing of significance is ever accomplished alone. The Thunderbirds is an elite team of 100+ people. Nicole explains how they built cohesion and collaboration where each person upheld their end of the bargain.
  • LEADING CHANGE: In aviation, turbulence is a metaphor for change. If turbulence strikes when flying in close formation, human instinct is to grip the stick tight and over-control. The opposite is true, Nicole explains; loosen your grip and trust your skills.
  • CREATING A CULTURE OF TRUST: We build trust by being trustworthy. Nicole shares how she earned trust by being the subject matter expert, showing up 100% reliable, and holding herself to the highest standards of excellence.
  • RESILIENCE PERSONIFIED: A misdiagnosed tick bite ended her military career, leaving her with life-long chronic illness. Nicole’s story of reinvention inspires audiences to face adversity and emerge stronger than before.
  • NOBODY WANTS TO LEAD A SCRIPTED LIFE: Nicole didn’t set out to be a pioneer, she just wanted to be a Thunderbird…since the age of five. Her journey to realizing her dream is inspiring.
  • VIEW NICOLE’S FULL CONTENT GUIDE HERE.

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Col. Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.) defies stereotypes. Yes, she was a jet fighter pilot, but if you think you know her based on that, you’d be wrong. A leader, a combat veteran, the first woman pilot on the Thunderbirds Air Demonstration Squadron, a White House Fellow, and an inductee into both the National Women’s Hall of Fame and the Women in Aviation International Pioneer Hall of Fame – she even has a Star Trek Federation starship named after her, the USS Malachowski (NCC-1619). Nicole’s distinguished 21-year Air Force career exceeded her wildest dreams. But the dream came to an end when a devastating tick-borne illness left her struggling greatly to speak or walk for almost nine months. An indomitable spirit, Nicole fought back against overwhelming odds and prevailed. Drawing on stories from her career and personal life, Nicole inspires audiences to rethink the challenges they face every day. She urges them to go beyond resilience and become resurgent. Nicole’s message empowers people with three key beliefs: failure and risk are the price of entry for achieving something great; sometimes you need to yield to overcome; and her personal mantra – “Nobody wants to lead a scripted life.”

Nicole brings her experience to the stage and holds audiences spellbound with an easygoing authenticity of someone who’s achieved greatness. She’s been a member and leader of elite-performing teams and has faced overwhelming challenges and adversity and has come out on top. Her presentations offer stories on the human behaviors and cultures required for elite team performance, because that’s where real results are built.

While other high school students were practicing for their driver’s license, Nicole was accumulating flight time. She was sixteen years old when she took her first solo flight and from that point on there was no stopping her. While in high school, she joined the Civil Air Patrol and participated in Air Force Junior ROTC. Nicole’s professional story began when she earned her commission from the United States Air Force Academy in 1996. Following graduation, she attended Undergraduate Pilot Training (UPT) at Columbus AFB, MS and began her career as a pilot. Competitively selected to fly combat aircraft, she was among the first group of women to fly modern fighter jets. As a career pilot, she served in combat as an F-15E Flight Commander, Evaluator, Instructor Pilot and Flight Lead. Over her 21-year career, Nicole achieved the rating of Command Pilot with over 2,300 flight hours in six different Air Force aircraft. She was also selected to fly as Thunderbird #3 with the USAF Air Demonstration Squadron – the first woman to fly on any Department of Defense military jet demonstration squadron. Colonel Malachowski has served as a mission ready fighter pilot in three operational F-15E fighter squadrons and has flown over 188 combat hours, including her proudest moment as a fighter pilot: leading the first fighter formation to provide security for Iraq’s historic democratic elections in 2005.

On the ground, Nicole was a White House Fellow, class of 2008-2009, where she served on the Presidential Transition Support Team (PTST) while assigned to the U.S. General Services Administration. The White House Fellows Foundation and Association awarded Nicole the 2019 IMPACT Award for demonstrating both remarkable achievement and transformational contributions in her field, as well as a sustained commitment to the White House Fellows program. Nicole also served two high-level staff assignments at the Pentagon – one in the Office of the Secretary of Defense (OSD P&R) as well as the Secretary of the Air Force Office of International Affairs (SAF/IA). She also served as the Executive Director of the White House’s national ‘Joining Forces’ initiative where she directly advised former First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden on all topics relating to service members, veterans, and military families to include employment, education, mental health, veterans’ homelessness and more.

Nicole’s operational F-15E assignments include two tours of duty at RAF Lakenheath, United Kingdom as well as one operational assignment to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC. She has also served alongside the United States Army 2nd Infantry Division, Camp Red Cloud, Republic of Korea, as an Air Liaison Officer. During her second assignment to Seymour Johnson AFB, NC, she had the honor of commanding the 333rd Fighter Squadron, leading an elite cadre of F-15E Instructors in the training of the next generation of combat aviators. Further, she was responsible for resources totaling over $1.1B and the execution of a $119M annual flying hour program.

Nicole earned a Master of Arts, with honors, in National Security Policy from American Military University and a second Master of Arts, with highest distinction, in National Security and Strategic Studies from the U.S. Naval War College. While there, she earned the Admiral Stephen B. Luce Award as the class honor graduate, the first Air Force officer in the history of the Naval War College to do so. Nicole has received several prestigious honors in recognition of her significant contributions to various endeavors, including the 2023 Award of Inspiration from The Ninety-Nines, Inc.®, an international organization of women pilots who are dedicated to encouraging and inspiring people to chase their dreams, whether in aviation directly or in other arenas.

Colonel Nicole Malachowski, USAF (Ret.) was born in Santa Maria, CA and graduated high school in Las Vegas, NV. She and her husband Paul have twin children; son Garrick and daughter Norah. Paul is a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and former F-15E Evaluator Weapons Systems Officer.

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I don’t just share successes, I share the moments I got it wrong, where I could have done better, and what failure and change taught me. My stories focus on the human behaviors and relationships required for elite team performance, because that’s where real results are built.

Nicole Malachowski

Speech Descriptions

Harnessing Headwinds: Successfully Navigating Change & Adversity

Leaders across every industry and experience level share one thing in common: to be successful, they need to effectively navigate failure, organizational change, and the unknown. Like headwinds to a pilot, these perceived barriers can force you to change direction, cost you momentum, and even take away options. These headwinds can feel confusing, disorienting, and downright uncomfortable. However, with the right mindset, anyone can learn to harness the energy of these headwinds in their personal favor, and to the favor of their teams and organizations.

Key Takeaways:

  • Overcome personal and professional failures.
  • Effectively navigate organizational and cultural change.
  • Get comfortable with risk, change, volatility, and pressure.
  • Build the resilience to recover, adapt, and keep moving forward.

Audience: Leaders at all levels of an organization looking for inspiration, self-reflection, and actionable tools to harness their headwinds in a way that works to the advantage of the individual, their communities, and their organizations.

Pushing the Envelope: Being the Best When It Counts

Leaders across every industry and experience level share one thing in common: to be successful they need to effectively navigate moments of self-doubt, master the role of a trustworthy team player, and embrace moments of personal and professional vulnerability. Pushing your own personal “performance envelope,” at work and in life, will empower you to bring your best every day, to accomplish as much as possible with your unique skillset, and to consistently perform to a standard of excellence as individual leaders and as elite teams. Leaders at all levels, particularly those in fast-moving, high-complexity environments where speed and trust must coexist, will find practical tools here.

Key Takeaways:

  • Overcome self-doubt that often inhibits personal and professional growth.
  • Model the selfless trust needed to be an effective teammate.
  • Practice vulnerability and transparency to build trust and galvanize teamwork.

Audience: Leaders at all levels of an organization looking for inspiration, self-reflection, and actionable tools to maximize their capabilities and impact as individuals, teams, and organizations.

Breaking Barriers: Conquering Self-Doubt and Cultural Paradigms

Everyone faces barriers, both personal and professional, that may appear to place limits on what’s possible. When people pursue only what is expected, accept cultural norms that hold them back, and view barriers as unsurmountable, their personal and professional lives become limited. Scripted. The Breaking Barriers mindset allows you to see your obstacles and challenges as opportunities to grow and as a chance to reach new levels of personal and professional excellence.

Key Takeaways:

  • Define your own possibilities and overcome self-doubt.
  • Reevaluate traditions, paradigms, and overcome limitations.
  • Welcome challenges to the status quo.

Audience: Leaders at all levels of an organization looking for room to grow beyond cultural paradigms, the status quo, and others’ expectations.

Fireside Chat & Moderated Q&A

Lively. Entertaining. Unfiltered. Insightful.

Not every audience needs a keynote. Sometimes, what they need most is a real conversation. In this moderated format (fireside chat, leadership Q&A, or audience-driven discussion), Nicole brings the full depth of her experiences into the room in a way that feels immediate, dynamic, and highly relevant. No two conversations are ever the same.

This format allows you to go deeper – to explore the moments behind the headlines: the decisions, the failures, the reinvention, and the human dynamics that drive elite performance. It creates space for authenticity, candor, and connection in a way a traditional speech often can’t.

Whether alongside a senior leader or engaging directly with your audience, Nicole adapts in real time, meeting the moment, addressing what matters most, and delivering insights that are both meaningful and actionable.

Nicole's Videos

https://player.vimeo.com/video/1180512262
Nicole's Speaker Reel
https://player.vimeo.com/video/1065891764
How to Navigate Turbulence
https://player.vimeo.com/video/1195686020
You Build Trust By Being Trustworthy
https://player.vimeo.com/video/1072658507
When Things Fall Apart – Yield to Overcome
https://player.vimeo.com/video/385076529
Turning Mistakes Into Elite Performance
https://player.vimeo.com/video/473021171
Supporting One Another: Ask for Help/Offer Help
https://player.vimeo.com/video/678720284
Courage - Nobody Wants to Lead a Scripted Life
https://player.vimeo.com/video/1077735800
The Wingman Contract
https://player.vimeo.com/video/362047200
Acceptance Speech – National Women's Hall of Fame

Quotes

You build trust by being trustworthy.

Nicole Malachowski

The runway behind you is always unusable. All you have is the runway in front of you.

Nicole Malachowski

Nobody wants to lead a scripted life.

Nicole Malachowski

Believe in those who believe in you.

Nicole Malachowski

Nothing of significance is every accomplished alone.

Nicole Malachowski

Loosen Your Grip.

Nicole Malachowski

  • You touched so many people with not only your story, but the very essence of who you are as human being. You left us all with the gifts of inspiration and motivation…exactly what we needed to end a conference that was focused on driving performance and connections.

    Event Planner, PM Hotel Group
  • You are a spectacular speaker and I have never been to a meeting with our entire team mesmerized by anyone like they were with you. Your story is unbelievable and you are able to deliver it in such a natural and powerful way that had me in awe for days after. I haven’t been so motivated or inspired by anyone in a long time.

    Director | Marketing Activation, Best Western® Hotels & Resorts
  • An indomitable spirit whose life journey adds such warmth and depth to her powerful message.

    VP, Advanced Technology Demonstration Center, Northrop Grumman
  • Rarely have I found an entire room of business colleagues all so incredibly inspired and engaged by one speaker! Nicole’s compassion, determination and kind spirit shine through…the outpouring of support, after two standing ovations and many tears, made it clear her message resonated with everyone in attendance.

    CEO of Cetera Financial Group
  • Nicole was exceptionally well received. She—truly—did a magnificent job. Connected with the audience, inspiring, thought-provoking, funny, real, open. Our colleagues couldn’t stop talking about it. Was the highlight of our event.

    UnitedHealth Group
  • We cannot thank YOU enough for bringing your inspiring, moving, profound, vulnerable, INCREDIBLE story to our team. If your ears have been ringing it is 120 people saying you were the absolute highlight of the whole offsite. And many told me you were the BEST speaker they have ever heard.

    Training Manager, Genentech
  • Everyone…I mean everyone…left raving about your message. You are an exceptional speaker and have an incredible message to share with anyone that’s looking at ways to be motivated to improve themselves. So yes, count me in as a card holding member of your fan club.

    Chairman, Board of Directors, National Association of Specialty Pharmacy (NASP)
  • …the best speaker we have ever had in the 28 years this event has been held. I strongly recommend her to future clients.

    Group Vice President and General Manager, Lexus Division
  • Nicole was a tremendous inspiration to our members. Nicole engaged with our audience and they left with a real sense of empowerment. I would highly recommend Nicole to any audience. Many of our contractors said she was the best speaker we have ever had.

    CEO, National Electrical Contractors Association (NECA)
  • Nicole was amazing and stole the hearts of every woman in the room. She got two standing ovations and there were lots of tears shed. You can’t imagine how impactful it was in a room of 100 professional economic development women.

    Women in Education
  • Book her now! I have worked with many speakers throughout my career and by far Nicole is the best. She did her homework and tied in our mission to her remarks and hit the nail on the head on how our audience of over 800 people can work together as a team. She was funny, passionate and drove home her points.

    Savannah Economic Development Authority
  • She was amazing from arrival, unbelievable on the main stage plus incredibly gracious in the VIP Photo. In my 24 years of being a meeting planner, Nicole is in my Top 5 as a speaker with her empowering content and we’re lucky to have someone like her sharing her message. Super human in my book! WOW!

    Principal & Senior Event Producer, planit inc.
  • Impactful. Authentic. Inspiring. She is real and delivers a message every leader will walk away with the opportunity to improve themselves and their team.

    President & CEO, National Tank Truck Carriers
  • Simply the best speaker we have ever had in 32 years! Period!

    CEO, Chairman of the Board, Founder of Troon